You Don’t Have to Have All the Answers

God will be faithful. Always. We can trust Him.

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I have a special treat for you today! I’ve asked my fabulous virtual assistant, Kaitlyn Bouchillon, to share her heart with you. Kaitlyn helps me with editing, social media, creating graphics and a variety of other things. She’s gifted, gracious, brilliant and keeps me on track. I’m so blessed to work with her!

Kaitlyn is graduating from college in three weeks and she’s going to be taking on more clients. If you’ve ever thought about having a virtual assistant, get in touch with her before all her time is taken! And enjoy her encouraging words for you below too…


From Kaitlyn Bouchillon:

I heard once that God is the one who overcomes — and because He does, we can come over. That sounds like really good news for me right now, and maybe you too?

There are days – maybe weeks, months, or even years – when there are more questions than answers, more things up in the air than things we know for certain. The times when someone you love dearly is sick, a relationship is falling apart, the bills are stacking up or the kids are running you wild.

Can I tell you a little secret?

It’s okay. You’re okay.

Even when life is topsy-turvy and spinning a bit out of control.

Even when it feels like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders.

Even when your hands are full.

Because there is One who has overcome. And so we can come over.

In the Bible, before the curtain was torn in two, the Holy of Holies could not be entered into by just anyone. You and I, we would not have been able to approach the place of the Lord’s presence. The curtain would have separated us – not from His love, because oh friend, how He loves us! – but from His beautiful, consuming, powerful presence.

But when Jesus Christ died as a sacrifice, the curtain that kept the distance and created a separation was torn in two. From top. to. bottom.

It was nothing man could do, but God did it for man. He entered into our mess and invited us into His presence. We can come over.

So when the counters need wiping, the bills are past-due and you can’t remember the last time you showered or got a full night’s sleep, remember this:

Maybe it’s not about knowing all the answers but trusting the Answer. And maybe the world that feels like it’s on your shoulders is really in His (more than capable) hands. You can stop climbing mountains and wondering if you’re enough because the truth is: Christ in you is BEAUTIFUL.

So hold onto hope, friend. Choose to believe He’s got it all figured out and His plans are so very good. Remember that the time spent worrying is time taken away from praying for the very things that cause us to worry. Slow is a frame of mind and today we can pause and choose to come over.

We may not know all the answers, but we can know the One who does.

Kaitlyn Bouchillon
p.s. Can I let you in on a little secret? I wrote these words for you — but I also wrote them to myself. In less than three weeks I’ll be walking across a stage in a cap and gown. I’m so excited and also terrified. There are so many unknowns. But. He has proven faithful in all things, at all times, in all ways.

God has clearly marked the path for me to be a full-time Virtual Assistant, and so I’m stepping in faith! A Virtual Assistant takes care of the behind-the-scenes stuff – like social media, for example – so that you can focus on where God is leading and use your gifts fully. 

One of my favorite things about graduating (besides the fact that I’ll be able to eat grilled cheese for dinner every night without a cafeteria of people judging me) is that I have the huge honor and joy of continuing to work for Holley as her Virtual Assistant! She is one of my very favorite people (Holley, if you edit this out I will add it right back in)

If you’re looking for a Virtual Assistant, I would be delighted to serve you too. Just get in touch with me and let me know what you need. I look forward to hearing from you! XOXO Kaitlyn

The Secret to True Peace

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. {John 14:27}

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When we pray for peace we usually ask Jesus to remove something from our lives–the trial or trouble, conflict or chaos, inconvenience or illness. Sometimes He grants those requests. But more often instead of taking away what’s disrupting our peace He gives what we need most in the midst of it:

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. {John 14:27}

What I’m learning is this: Peace isn’t the absence of chaos; it’s the presence of Christ. He knows as long as we live in a fallen, broken world we will go through challenges, have hard days and face obstacles that seem insurmountable.

So maybe today we pray a little differently: Instead of asking for less of what is troubling us we ask for more of what Jesus wants to give us.

Now may the Lord of peace himself give you His peace at all times and in every situation. {2 Thess. 3:16}

Yes and amen.



Holley Gerth

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Why Our Lives Can Be Fruitful At Every Age

Yes, you will be a woman of beauty, growth and blessings as long as you live.

This is the promise: If we stay connected to Jesus there will be fruit in every season of our lives. Not maybe. Not might. Not “if conditions are right.” There will be fruit.

If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. {John 15:5}

And the fruit in our lives will thrive {Psalm 1:3}. That doesn’t mean nothing hard will ever happen or we’ll get everything you want. But it does mean that God’s plans for our lives are invincible when we stay connected to Him. Life’s droughts, storms, hail and hell can’t stop him from bringing forth his miraculous work in and through us.

Let’s cling to God’s promises. Hold tight to His heart. Have strong roots that go down deep into His affection for us {Eph. 3:17}. We will not falter. We will not fail. We will not lead a barren life at any age.

Even in old age they will still produce fruit; they will remain vital and green. {Psalm 92:14}

Yes, we will be women of beauty, growth and blessings as long as we live. Because we are trees planted by the river of God’s love and it will never run dry.


Holley Gerth

p.s. If you’d like more encouragement about God’s love for you, you can find it in my article for Today’s Christian Woman: “Do You Really Believe God Loves You?”

Why You Don’t Have to Save the World this Week

We are not the savior of anyone or anything. Instead we're simply messengers and servants.

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I placed my head in my hands and whispered, “I can’t do this.” My perplexed husband asked, “Do what?” I replied, “Everything for everyone.” {That might have been a bit of a whiny exaggeration on my part.} He raised an eyebrow at me and smiled a bit before responding, “You don’t have to.”

How do I so easily forget that’s true?

It seems every time I end up exhausted this is the reason: I’ve delusionally decided the fate of the universe and all who live in it is up to me. No pressure, right?

Here’s what’s true: I don’t have to save the world. Jesus already did.

And you don’t have to either.

My friend Serenity works with women at the House of Hope. In a recent newsletter, she shared how what she does can be both wonderful and hard. And she included this quote from someone else trying to make a difference in the lives of others:

You know I cannot save them. I am not here to save anybody or to save the world. All I can do- what I’m called to do- is to plant myself at the gates of hope. Sometimes they walk by. But I stand there every day and I call out till my lungs are sore with calling, and beckon and urge them in toward beautiful life and love.

I can’t get this one phrase out of my mind or heart: I plant myself at the gates of hope. Yes. Isn’t that it?

In other words, our job is simply showing up and pointing the way. Regardless of how it may feel some days, that is enough. We are not the savior of anyone or anything. Instead we’re simply messengers and servants. The only arms strong enough to carry the weight of the world are the ones that stretched out on a cross.

Those same arms are there to hold and carry us when it all feels like too much.

Because what Jesus has already done is truly enough.



Holley Gerth


P.S. Do you need a little hope, friend? Are you weary? Stacey and Brooke have written words just for you in their new book Hope for the Weary Mom.


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Good News for a Monday: Your Worth Doesn’t Come from Your Work

The God who created you is the One who will help you respond with all your heart, soul, mind and strength to that question and He'll use your answer to make a difference in and through you all the days of your life. Your worth doesn't come from your work.

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We can be a career-obsessed culture. Stand around long enough at any gathering where you don’t know everyone and you’ll be asked, “So, what do you do?” Frequently it’s even the first question posed when meeting someone. {In case you didn’t know, this is oddly American. Most other cultures don’t start with your job. They start with who you are. Your family. Your friends. What you love.}

Maybe that’s one reason why it’s so easy to fall into the trap of believing what we do equals who we are. We define ourselves by titles {manager, artist, stay-home-mom} and by the roles that go with them {employee, Etsy shop owner, mother}. Then when something changes {the company closes, the art doesn’t sell, the kids grow up} we despair.

“Who am I now?” we ask.

We also experience a lot of fear if it even seems like that might happen.

“Who would I be without this?” we question.

I thought about this as I drove home the other day from a writing session at a coffee shop. I have a deadline coming up and it’s scaring me silly. Because I’m afraid if I fail then I might have to stop writing and without writing it feels like I might not know who I am.

I whispered a prayer for help and one simple statement flashed into my mind: What you do is not your identity. It’s your assignment.


I knew that but somehow it got buried under stacks of “what ifs” and worries. Immediately I could feel my shoulders relax and I let out a big sigh of relief. Because I remembered this too: As long as I’m on earth God will find a way for me to be useful. I saw that in the life of my 93 year-old Grandpa who went home to heaven last summer. I see it in women like Barbara Beskind, a 90 year-old designer for the tech company Ideo. I watch it in the lives of others around me who continue to contribute despite significant alterations in their circumstances.

We usually have one what but over a lifetime the how will change a lot. For example, one woman’s “what” might be encouraging. She might primarily do that for friends in high school, for her team at work in her twenties, for her kids as a mom in her thirties, for her Bible study for her church in her forties, for her classmates when she goes back to school in her fifties, for her employees in her sixties, for her neighbors in her seventies…and so on until God decides it’s time for her to go Home.

None of those are about a job or career…even if they involve a business or specific title. 

Our culture may be work-focused but thankfully God isn’t.

He isn’t like that stranger at a party asking, “So, what do you do?”

Instead He’s posing a far more important question, “Who have I made you?”

The God who created you is the One who will help you respond with all your heart, soul, mind and strength to that question and He’ll use your answer to make a difference in and through you all the days of your life.


Holley Gerth


P.S. If you live in the Northeast and are looking for a retreat this Spring, I’d love to see you at The Winsome Retreat… Will you be there? Find all the information here.


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