I Believe You’re Here for a Purpose

Any time I’ve washed my hair and I’m not in yoga pants is photo worthy. Ha!

Have you ever felt like you’re not enough or too much… but you aren’t even sure why or what to do about it?

My guess is that feeling is part of what brought you here, even if you thought you were just doing an internet search or stopping by another web site. How do I know? As a counselor, life coach and bestselling author I’ve connected with thousands of others who feel the same. And, yep, I’ve been there too!

Many of us carry our false feelings of inadequacy around like a too-heavy tote bag. We aren’t even sure where it came from or how to let it go.

  • Why do we get derailed by fear and perceived failures so often?
  • Why do we feel insecure, especially when God tells us how valuable we are?
  • Why do we waste time comparing ourselves with others instead of becoming the best version of who we are?

The truth is most of us haven’t had the opportunity to truly understand ourselves… and the much bigger story we’re invited to be part of. When we have the courage to step into that vulnerable place of growth, we can trade our inadequacy for true worth, our insecurity for courageous confidence, our emptiness for life to the full.

This is possible for you. I know because I’ve been where you are, and I know what it takes to overcome the kind of challenges you’re facing. I’ve personally struggled with anxiety, depression, perfectionism and more. I’m not ashamed to share that with you because those are battles I’ve fought (and won) but they’re not my God-given identity or destiny.

Sometimes we just need a different perspective on our lives. Right now you see imperfection, I see someone incomparable. You see weaknesses, I see hidden strengths. You see struggles, I see your God-given superpowers…

Let’s find your cape.

Welcome to a new start in your life. I’m Holley—bestselling author, licensed counselor, certified life coach, international speaker and fan of YOU.

Mark and I on another day when I washed my hair and didn’t have on stretchy pants!

I’d like to invite you on a journey to embrace who you are and become all you’re created to be. If you choose to accept this invitation, we’ll take each step together, starting right now…

To begin, here are three things you can do:

# 1 – Join my VIP email list so we can stay connected. About 30,000 others already have. I send regular updates to encourage and inspire you, and I don’t want you to miss a single thing. When you do this, you’ll also receive a free gift — a special set of four exercises called 15 Minutes to Your Mission Statement. (I think you’ll really enjoy this!)



More than Small Talk Podcast

Suzie, Jennifer, Holley

# 2 – If you’re into podcasts, listen to More Than Small Talk. Suzie Eller, Jennifer Watson (fellow authors and my real-life friends) and I spend each episode discussing one confession question (gasp!) as well as sharing helpful truths, tips and resources. If you want to go deeper, live freer and feel more connected you’ll love this podcast. Find it online or through your favorite app.




#3 – Finally, if you want to live more fully and love more bravely, be less consumed by fear and the need to be perfect, check out my new book, Fiercehearted. This is my most personal book ever. Fair warning: it’s gritty and grace-filled. It will help you discover why you’re stronger than you know, braver than you feel, and more loved than you can even imagine.



I’m so glad you’re here. I’m looking forward to taking this journey with you.

Cheering You On,




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