What finding yourself really means…

I’m writing these words from the sofa of my childhood home.

A few rooms over, pink flowered wallpaper beckons me back to memories of slumber parties, awkward years, bangs that were too big, and endless questions about who I would grow up to be.

And the more years go by, it seems I know both more and less about the answer to those questions.

Find yourself, says this world.

But I don’t think that’s really the way it works.

Finding yourself sounds like “you” are out there that knowing who you are is a process of going.

Yet it seems in so many ways that it’s really more about staying

Will you read the rest with me on (in)courage today? Oh, thank you!

About Holley

About Holley

Wall Street Journal Bestselling Author and Life Coach

I like humans, words, and good coffee. And I’d love to help you beat what’s holding you back, become all you’re created to be, and kick butt for the greater good.

Cheering you on,


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