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I stand at the sink, dirty pan in hand. I smell citrus in the soap, hear the warm water flow, move the brush in circles over the last bits of burnt cheese. I feel small in this space, ordinary and rooted to the ground. I have been here for a long while now, in this kitchen, on this earth, and I silently ask, What’s my purpose?

Across the street a mama or grandma might be asking the same as she changes the tenth diaper of the day. Maybe in the center of town someone is leaning her head on her desk with the door closed, just resting for a moment on that stack of spreadsheets and wondering this too.

When we ask this question and silence seems to be the answer, we often go searching. We’ll say yes to another opportunity or perhaps run away from it all. We’ll join that cool play group or volunteer at the soup kitchen on Fridays. We might jockey for the promotion or put in the long hours. My purpose is out there somewhere, we think, and one day I’ll find it.

But then the opportunity doesn’t go as planned, the giving leaves us empty, and our souls grow pale in the fluorescent light. “Something else will do it,” we say, “Surely it will be the next thing.” And on we go with our gypsy hearts.

It’s understandable, this great migration. We live in a culture that tells us the purpose of life is about us. We must find that one thing we are here to do and then all will be well; we will be whole. But when I look closer at how “purpose” is used in Scripture, there’s a different story.

The plans of the Lord stand firm forever, the purposes of his heart through all generations. (Ps. 33:11)

Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails. (Prov. 19:21)

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Rom. 8:28)

The purposes of his heart, the Lord’s purpose, his purpose—over and over when purpose is described, it comes from God and belongs to Him. Also, purpose isn’t talked about much in terms of just individual people. It is more often spoken of as an ongoing thread that stretches through all of history and eternity. It is so much bigger than us. So when we go looking only for “our” purpose, we are disappointed. What changes everything is when we understand that a meaningful life is not just about finding our purpose but joining God’s.

If we want to be part of God’s purposes today, then we simply love Him, others, and ourselves. That means standing at the kitchen sink washing dishes can be worship. It means that another diaper changed can be an act of sacred service. It means the work project done well can be an offering. It means we don’t have to find purpose only “out there.” It can also be “right here.”

The square of earth you are standing on is the only place in all of history and the entire universe where both you and God are right now. It’s where His purposes and you, a person created by Him, come together. This is not small or inconsequential. It is beautiful and powerful. It is holy, meaningful ground.

XOXO
Holley Gerth

This post is an excerpt from my new devotional, Hope Your Heart Needs: 52 Encouraging Reminders of How God Cares for You. Look for it today at your favorite place for books, or sponsor a child through this link and Compassion will send you a free copy!

P.S. If you serve in ministry, I’d love to send you a free book as a thank-you gift! Find all the details here.

And, if you’re in the Arkansas/Oklahoma/Missouri area, I’d love to see you at the She Found Joy event on October 26th! It’s going to be a one-night mini retreat. More details here.

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A new friend leans in as if she’s about to share a scandalous confession. She whispers, “My dreams are too small.” Then she shares about her desire to raise her kids to love Jesus, make a difference in her neighborhood and serve at her church. I smile and answer, “I think your dreams are just right. A God-sized dream isn’t really about size at all—it’s about what perfectly fits your heart and His purpose for your life.” She responds, “But others are doing bigger things for God like going far away to serve Him. I feel like my life isn’t enough.”

Those words echo what I’ve heard from thousands of other women. Somehow we’ve believed the lie that what we do needs to be flashy, noticeable and worthy of headlines in order to be spiritual. Yet the more I look at what matters to God, the more I’ve become convinced that isn’t true. My husband and I keep this verse in our office: “Seek to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you” (1 Thessalonians 4:11). One phrase in particular stands out to me, seek to lead a quiet life.

In our busy, noisy, get-ahead culture those words are revolutionary. Yes, there may be times when God asks us to go on intense adventures with Him. But I believe we underestimate how often His invitation is simply for us to be faithful where we are with who He’s already put in front of us. As another friend of mine recently said, “A lot of ordinary days add up to an extraordinary life.”

I’ve heard it said that September is a bit like January, a time when we can pause and reflect. With that in mind, I’d like to challenge all of us to make three new, wildly different resolutions this fall…

• First, let’s intentionally say “no” more often. If we are doing something just because we “should” then we can pause and ask, “God, is this really Your best for me or is this just adding extra noise to my life?”
• Next let’s make room for rest. Isaiah 30:15 says, “You will be delivered by returning and resting; your strength will lie in quiet confidence.” Rest isn’t selfish—it’s essential for a lifetime of service.
• Finally, let’s change our idea of what we think really matters. What seems “huge” and popular is often small to God. And what goes unnoticed in our world is often a highlight from heaven’s perspective.

As my new friend and I wrap up our conversation, I hug her and say, “You’re doing more for the Kingdom than you realize. You’re making a difference beyond what you can see. Your ‘small’ is worth more than you could ever measure.” I’m saying the same to all of us today.

XOXO
Holley Gerth

Exciting News: Hope Your Heart Needs: 52 Encouraging Reminders of How God Cares for You releases this month. God used the truths in this devotional to bring new hope and strength to my weary, discouraged heart and now I’m sharing them with you. Preorder or read a free excerpt.

P.S. I’m speaking at The Declare Conference in October, and I’d love to see you there! Declare is a conference for women who write, blog, speak and podcast. The Declare team has given me a special code — VIPHolley — just for my followers, good for $200 off. But it’s only good for the first 10 people to use it, so don’t wait too long. I hope to see you there in October!

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I woke not to the sound of the alarm clock but lies ringing in my ears…

You’re not good enough.

You don’t have what it takes.

You’re going to let people down.

I wished for an emotional snooze button. In the absence of such a solution, I rolled over and tapped my husband on the shoulder. “I need to go for a walk,” I said.

Outside the grass was still wet, the sky blue, the new morning clean like a baby fresh out of the bath. I decided to tell my husband about the lies my heart kept hearing. Sometimes when you say such things out loud it’s like taking a pin to a balloon. In an instant it’s clear there’s nothing to it, just empty air.

But on this day the opposite happened. Instead of feeling relief I started ugly crying. Right there in the middle of the walking trail. In front of the row of houses with the big windows. The ones whose occupants like to post photos of unusual happenings on the neighborhood Facebook page.

I didn’t know what to do and the tears wouldn’t stop, so I just took off.

Now, I am not a graceful athlete on my best days. I run like a motivated duck. I sweat like I’ve just climbed out of a pond. Add the ugly cry and let’s just say you’re not going to see that photo on the back of a book. I felt just as messy on the inside, entirely undone, beyond the realm of reason or religious clichés.

Yet into that space came one simple phrase, “Jesus loves me, this I know.” I couldn’t think of anything else. It was all I had, all I knew for sure. I started emphasizing a different word with each step…

JESUS loves me this I know.

Jesus LOVES me this I know.

Jesus loves ME this I know.

And somehow, somewhere deep inside those words to a simple children’s song began to restore my sanity.

The world might tell me that I just needed more self-esteem to defeat those lies, to calm my racing heart. But what I needed, most of all, was to simply remember that I have a Savior. That I always have been and always will be loved just as I am.

That’s true in the moments when I ugly cry. In the ones when I let the worst of the lies get the best of me. Also in the entirely different ones when I share my heart in front of a crowd and the applause rolls across the room like gentle thunder (as it would at the speaking event later that night).

My husband caught up with me on the trail (it’s not hard to catch a sweaty duck). He hugged me and walked me home. Once we got there I sat on the edge of the bed, right by the spot where I’d woken up to the loud lies not long before. I didn’t hear them anymore.

Sometimes I think I need to know everything. But I’m finding, more often than not, what I really need is to remember one thing…

Jesus loves me this I know.

XOXO

Holley Gerth

p.s. I have a new devotional releasing September 18th called Hope Your Heart Needs: 52 Encouraging Reminders of How God Cares for You. I’m so excited about it! Each day talks about a different characteristic of who God is and how He loves us. Writing this book changed my life and I truly believe reading it will change yours. It’s available for preorder. And here’s a free excerpt.

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